Even if you have the exact same circumstances, you may never know exactly how it feels to be someone else in that situation. We are uniquely our own entities and journey through life in many different ways. It is a collection of our life experiences that dictate a lot of our actions and reactions. This is one of the many miracles of living a life that is uniquely our own.
Something that seems so obvious to others is not always so easy for us. The happily married woman can so easily tell the single woman to get herself out there, don't be afraid to get hurt again. Easy for her to say when it is not her heart on the line. The fit and active person looks at the overweight person struggling to do what seems so simple and does not understand what is so hard. What is easy for one person might be a huge hurdle in another persons life. It is much easier to say I could do it or you should just do its. Heck it is even easier to tell ourselves we will change something than it is to take that first step to actually follow through. Be cautious with the words of wisdom you provide to others and remember it is easier said than done.
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